This is Andrew's Theory

I refused to involve myself in SOMEONE'S business.  I do not care about knowing someone's business   anless he or she shared to me to pray about something.  I am your friend, but I am not part of your personal conflict.  I refused to join your conflict with your neighbor, family, wife, husband, children, and friends.

But if you ask me to pray for you, I will love that because everyone has to learn to love and support others and serve others.